MissBinky
Well-Known Member
While I respect everyone here, I would like to speak my mind as this seems to be one big misunderstanding. The forum is here to guide, educate, and assist rabbit owners. The problem is that while forum members are very open to assisting, they are all very passionate about rabbits and that passion sometimes comes across as aggression.
The thing is here, on this forum, we're all supposed to have only one thing in mind: our rabbits' welfare. The very reason for joining this forum is to learn, to teach, and help each other. If you come to this forum and ask members for advice, ask only if you are really sincere. People here love rabbits and treat them like family members. It is more frustrating to see people who really don't know better make mistakes compared to watching the very forum members we (the forum) strive to educate. We know they know better, we know they are better than that.
Every decision you make, every word of advice you give, should be about the rabbit. We can only do the best we can, and try to make the best decisions possible but we'll all make mistakes. The difference is we need to grow from them.
What I am going to say (and I hope it comes out right) is touchy, please don't take offense...
We all have different opinions, views, understandings... I, personally, do not like rabbit showing much and I wouldn't do it to my bunny (ies). I have my own reasons for that. However, does that mean I have something against Pamnock who is an ARBA judge? No, of course not. What it means, is that I sit here and read about it and make a personal decision as to why or why not I would show. And, I respect those who do show because they see it differently.
Breeding always was a difficult subject. The only question is: Why breed? Are you doing it for the rabbits? Or are you doing it for your own pleasure? Is it genuine or selfish?
Deciding to go ahead and breed a rabbit that is overage, with insufficient resources, is something that the forum is against. Why? Simply because it is all too possible that one or more rabbits may suffer in the end. And that's not to say that the owner wouldn't hurt emotionally afterwards after.
I'm going to mention Becca only because she was mentionned...
You must understand that Becca is 13. Until recently, she only owned a single rabbit. She then got 2 more, thus making 3. Then that one died and now she got Benji. She currently owns 3 rabbits. Becca is not a breeder. She joined this forum less than a year ago to learn. She still has much much to learn and because of this, now is just not a good time to end up with a bunch of baby bunnies on her hands. She should be using this time to bond with her own bunnies rather than making more. Aside from that, is the fact that she is in school and with that comes activities, homework, etc etc. Not only that, but I personally, do not feel she is ready emotionally to handle the responsibilities that breeding rabbits involves. Personally I was upset because i had talked to Becca about fostering a pregnant doe rather than risking her own bunny's life so that she could get the oppurtunity to live that experience and she ignored it. On top of all that, many members ended up feeling like fools because she lied and that just goes to prove that she still has much to learn. And that's not a bad thing Becca. The thing is, at one point, it's up to them. You can't make the decision for the person.
It's like a child... You can only raise them up to the best of your capabilities and then hope for the rest. If they fail, it is because they chose to, not because you didn't inform them properly. But you can be there when they see the reality, and let them learn to listen to you more closely.
The thing is here, on this forum, we're all supposed to have only one thing in mind: our rabbits' welfare. The very reason for joining this forum is to learn, to teach, and help each other. If you come to this forum and ask members for advice, ask only if you are really sincere. People here love rabbits and treat them like family members. It is more frustrating to see people who really don't know better make mistakes compared to watching the very forum members we (the forum) strive to educate. We know they know better, we know they are better than that.
Every decision you make, every word of advice you give, should be about the rabbit. We can only do the best we can, and try to make the best decisions possible but we'll all make mistakes. The difference is we need to grow from them.
What I am going to say (and I hope it comes out right) is touchy, please don't take offense...
We all have different opinions, views, understandings... I, personally, do not like rabbit showing much and I wouldn't do it to my bunny (ies). I have my own reasons for that. However, does that mean I have something against Pamnock who is an ARBA judge? No, of course not. What it means, is that I sit here and read about it and make a personal decision as to why or why not I would show. And, I respect those who do show because they see it differently.
Breeding always was a difficult subject. The only question is: Why breed? Are you doing it for the rabbits? Or are you doing it for your own pleasure? Is it genuine or selfish?
Deciding to go ahead and breed a rabbit that is overage, with insufficient resources, is something that the forum is against. Why? Simply because it is all too possible that one or more rabbits may suffer in the end. And that's not to say that the owner wouldn't hurt emotionally afterwards after.
I'm going to mention Becca only because she was mentionned...
You must understand that Becca is 13. Until recently, she only owned a single rabbit. She then got 2 more, thus making 3. Then that one died and now she got Benji. She currently owns 3 rabbits. Becca is not a breeder. She joined this forum less than a year ago to learn. She still has much much to learn and because of this, now is just not a good time to end up with a bunch of baby bunnies on her hands. She should be using this time to bond with her own bunnies rather than making more. Aside from that, is the fact that she is in school and with that comes activities, homework, etc etc. Not only that, but I personally, do not feel she is ready emotionally to handle the responsibilities that breeding rabbits involves. Personally I was upset because i had talked to Becca about fostering a pregnant doe rather than risking her own bunny's life so that she could get the oppurtunity to live that experience and she ignored it. On top of all that, many members ended up feeling like fools because she lied and that just goes to prove that she still has much to learn. And that's not a bad thing Becca. The thing is, at one point, it's up to them. You can't make the decision for the person.
It's like a child... You can only raise them up to the best of your capabilities and then hope for the rest. If they fail, it is because they chose to, not because you didn't inform them properly. But you can be there when they see the reality, and let them learn to listen to you more closely.