I saw this thread when it was initially posted, but I didn't respond. I did, however, pray for you and for your family along with your son's friend's family. I didn't respond because I didn't know what to say. I don't know what you must feeling and I can't imagine what this precious child's family is thinking and feeling. So...all I can say is that I'm sorry and that I'll continue to pray for you all. I'm sorry there's not much more I can say or do. I wish there was. I'm just so sorry.