NZminilops
Well-Known Member
I was gonna take a break from RO because I keep being a pain in the behind to some people on here, but I'm fuming and needed somewhere just to get it all out.
Don't read the following as it's probably boring, I just need to get it off my mind.
Mathews temper tantrums are getting bad again and it's driving me up the wall!
Today is his mums 60th birthday, and I tell him nicely he should really call her and say happy birthday. He doesn't, and it gets later and later. Finally she ends up calling, I hear the phone ringing and yell out that I'll get it but he gets there first.
Now his mum can talk, and talk, and talk, until you have a massive earache from holding the phone up. He's trying to get back to something he's doing on the PS3 and is rolling his eyes and making signs at me that he wants to strangle her. I giggle, I think he's joking. He finally manages to get off the phone and proceeds to scream, swear and break MY lovely phone in half. It's the only landline phone we have, it came with an answering machine and it's pretty flash for me, my brother paid a few hundred dbucks for it and gave it to me a couple of years ago.
He then throws the phone at my direction and hits the cat (meant to hit me I'm guessing), the cat runs off in terror and I burst into tears and storm off. All the while he's yelling about how I should know he hates phones and he's told me before and how slow I am at learning bla bla bla.
And he wonders why I'm reluctant to be anything other than a friend to him right now? :grumpy:
I don't know why someone who was lovely to me all day, came home from work 2 hours early to let me in the house because I locked myself out, can just turn like that. I'm so nice to him, I get up every single day and make his breakfast and his work lunch, I make sure the house is perfect for when he comes home, I cook dinner ever night, he never has to get off his chair from the minute he comes home, but it's still not good enough.
Just feeling so down and weepy and angry
.
Don't read the following as it's probably boring, I just need to get it off my mind.
Mathews temper tantrums are getting bad again and it's driving me up the wall!
Today is his mums 60th birthday, and I tell him nicely he should really call her and say happy birthday. He doesn't, and it gets later and later. Finally she ends up calling, I hear the phone ringing and yell out that I'll get it but he gets there first.
Now his mum can talk, and talk, and talk, until you have a massive earache from holding the phone up. He's trying to get back to something he's doing on the PS3 and is rolling his eyes and making signs at me that he wants to strangle her. I giggle, I think he's joking. He finally manages to get off the phone and proceeds to scream, swear and break MY lovely phone in half. It's the only landline phone we have, it came with an answering machine and it's pretty flash for me, my brother paid a few hundred dbucks for it and gave it to me a couple of years ago.
He then throws the phone at my direction and hits the cat (meant to hit me I'm guessing), the cat runs off in terror and I burst into tears and storm off. All the while he's yelling about how I should know he hates phones and he's told me before and how slow I am at learning bla bla bla.
And he wonders why I'm reluctant to be anything other than a friend to him right now? :grumpy:
I don't know why someone who was lovely to me all day, came home from work 2 hours early to let me in the house because I locked myself out, can just turn like that. I'm so nice to him, I get up every single day and make his breakfast and his work lunch, I make sure the house is perfect for when he comes home, I cook dinner ever night, he never has to get off his chair from the minute he comes home, but it's still not good enough.
Just feeling so down and weepy and angry
.
