Cove
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NA I never got a pm...?
LOL, I just have to laugh. I know hubby loves the fosters, but sometimes he just gets grouchy and starts complaining about how inconvenienced he is because of them. I just "yeah, yeah OK" and let him wear out his rant.It helped me to not "argue" along with him when he starts in on the bun and make sure to give the BF just as much attention as the bun..
That's what I tell Will, too! I used to pay most of the bills, now I'm unemployed, but still have to pay bills I don't have a car loan like Will does, though...i just keep telling him that one day when we have kids he'll be the bread winner of the family and i'll just be like a big mooch being barefoot and pregnant so i figure i'mjust trying to pull my weight now by taking over the big bills.
I'm actually really greatful for times like this when i am the breadwinner. i can't tell you how many married couples i know that get pregnant then the wife stops working but doesn't stop the spending. it gives me a new prospective on finances when i'm the person paying the bills. i think that when the times comes for me to stay home and be a mom or just work part time and be a mom that i'll look back on these times when i was the sole-provider and when i want those cute shoes and spend doug's money on buying them....i'll think twice. it definately gives me a better understanding of the stress of being the provider. i'm just happy that this won't be the rest of my life. i think it's stressful to be a man and to worry all the time about money and finances.purplepeacock wrote:That's what I tell Will, too! I used to pay most of the bills, now I'm unemployed, but still have to pay bills I don't have a car loan like Will does, though...i just keep telling him that one day when we have kids he'll be the bread winner of the family and i'll just be like a big mooch being barefoot and pregnant so i figure i'mjust trying to pull my weight now by taking over the big bills.
He was crabbier about the bunnies being around (and out) when he was unemployed. I just ignored it and told him that they keep me happy, and if he doesn't like it, too bad. I know that sounds harsh, but if I didn't have my animals, I'd have a hole in my heart.
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