NZminilops
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ec wrote:
My partner is pretty controlling and can be verbally abusive so I do know exactly what you are saying, just sometimes if someone posts that their partner really doesn't want them to get more pets, everyones immediate reaction is to turf the guy out the door. I just don't think that's right is all.
Isn't it just as bad to say "sorry it's either my pets or you, and I choose my pets"?NZminilops wrote:
Good points, although I have seen a *lot* of posts on various rabbit boards where people who have relationships with abusive/controlling (etc.) people end up being threatened with "it's either the rabbits or me"While I think that our pets are very precious etc etc, I also think our boyfriends/husbands are as well . If you're living with someone you need to take their feelings about things into account. Obviously not to the point where they dictate your life, but there needs to be compromise.
Just like we may wish they listen to us about how we want and love our pets, they also wish we'd listen to them when they tell us they've had enough and 'no more pets', it can be stressful of someone who isn't keen on something to be surrounded by it.
My partner is pretty controlling and can be verbally abusive so I do know exactly what you are saying, just sometimes if someone posts that their partner really doesn't want them to get more pets, everyones immediate reaction is to turf the guy out the door. I just don't think that's right is all.