ask her why she wants a bunny?..cuz a 3 year old doesnt need a bunny...id also tell her u get visiting rights too...hey u make the rules here so if she doesnt like it dont let her have one..this is a life that u care about...u need to make the best decisions for THIS life...when she comes to visit make sure u ask her everything...what will u be feeding,,how much,,,talk about everything there is to talk about bunnies and their care...cuz she needs to know that bunnies are not an easy job...especially with a 3 year old.most people give up the bunny cuz i got a 3 year old...geez.i dont know how ur gonna do it but good luck with ur decision..im a foster flop so i really shouldnt give advice...hehe i cant seem to let them go once i have them...hoarding here i come...!!!!!!!...........kidding.