fuzz16
Well-Known Member
I dont know if he is telling me lies and im afraid of what will happen.
he says he pays 300 a month but that he doesnt have to pay the 8g in backpay cause his attorney said he was absent and didnt know the child was his even though i tried contacting him many times after he skipped town selling his car and giving his phone away. he refused to beleive me and then deleted his myspace that was the only way i could contact him.
now he is saying hos he will take me to court because he is allowed to have custody of her on weekends or three days of the week. i told him she doesnt know him and that i dont trust hhim with her. she is 2...very clingy and he just came into her life and only wants to be cause he has to pay now.
i am extremely upset and dont know what to do or think. i cant really afford an attorney but i want him gone. out of my life. but i dont think i can have him sign his rights over without loosing the state help with daycare...which those of you who get srs help wit daycare understands...280$ a week is not afforadable on my 1100$ a month income...
ETA: i did tell him that because of his history he would only get supervised visits. he was in jail for drug dealing. has numerous tickets, not reliable as a person to pay bills or anything like that...then he tells me that i am no better cause i used to self mutilate like 5 yers ago. it was a stage. i never went to jail, i have never been arrested, never gotten anything but a speeding ticket. i have my own apartment, a job, a good 9g paid off car. i just think he is trying to scare me but i kinda wonder how much of what he says he could get
he says he pays 300 a month but that he doesnt have to pay the 8g in backpay cause his attorney said he was absent and didnt know the child was his even though i tried contacting him many times after he skipped town selling his car and giving his phone away. he refused to beleive me and then deleted his myspace that was the only way i could contact him.
now he is saying hos he will take me to court because he is allowed to have custody of her on weekends or three days of the week. i told him she doesnt know him and that i dont trust hhim with her. she is 2...very clingy and he just came into her life and only wants to be cause he has to pay now.
i am extremely upset and dont know what to do or think. i cant really afford an attorney but i want him gone. out of my life. but i dont think i can have him sign his rights over without loosing the state help with daycare...which those of you who get srs help wit daycare understands...280$ a week is not afforadable on my 1100$ a month income...
ETA: i did tell him that because of his history he would only get supervised visits. he was in jail for drug dealing. has numerous tickets, not reliable as a person to pay bills or anything like that...then he tells me that i am no better cause i used to self mutilate like 5 yers ago. it was a stage. i never went to jail, i have never been arrested, never gotten anything but a speeding ticket. i have my own apartment, a job, a good 9g paid off car. i just think he is trying to scare me but i kinda wonder how much of what he says he could get