If your dad doesn't know, then you shouldprobably tell him. Your father might be able to speak with the schooladministration before school starts. The fact is if the schoolcounselors and administration don't respond to your father's demands tohave this situation remedied they will find themselves in a world oftrouble. As Pamnock said, this is a crime. Constant harrassment is notacceptable regardless of the gender of the parties concerned, but whenit comes to a boy hitting a girl, it is considered even less tolerable.If you can't tell your Dad, can you talk to another relative like anAunt, Uncle, Grandmother etc.?
You DO NOT DESERVE IT. You can not do or say anything that gives anyonethe right to lay a hand on you or mentally abuse you. If your friendsdon't understand how much this boy is hurting you they need to be toldagain. If they refuse, then they must be so wrapped up in this boy thatthey have become bad friends. Friends love and support eachother.
If there is someway you or better yet, your father can talk to theschool before you start classes things might get better quicker. Youmight be able to insure that you're not in the same classes as thislittle jerk. You might even discover that you're not the only oneworried about him.
Some other ideas if talking doesn't work soon enough:
self-defense sounds good
befriending a boy who is nice.?Most likely?the little jerk would notwant to mess with a boy, since he goes around punching girls (sorry forthe sexism, but it's true)
Don't speak to this creep. If he talks to you tell him you don't wantto talk to him. Your friends can hang out with him all they like, whenthey're through they can spend time with you. Say something to yourfriends like "He is too immature for me. I just can't put up with hischildish behavior anymore. He's annoying." or "I don't know how youstand him! He's such a little boy." or "I don't really want toassociate with some little creep who would hit a girl. I mean really,don't you think it's a little
weird that he hits us?" or "Look,I like hanging out with guys. He might even be cool if it weren't forthe fact that he hits us! I just think he's more trouble than he'sworth."
I don't know. Sorry this is so long. I'm just worried about you. You'resuch a funny, smart, articulate girl. Feel free to email me as well.I've been handling boy bullies of all ages for a long time. I can't saythat I can help, but I'd be happy to let you vent to me.
Wasn't BuckJones a school teacher? Perhaps he can offer some helpful advice.
-Sarah