Astro_Girl
New Bunny Mama
Hi everyone,
So i've been dealing with a particularly loud neighbor downstairs.
The husband is a "retired failed singer" as he told me when i first moved in.
So i hear him sing a lot (rather badly) and play music at all hours. I mean really, middle of the day, 5:30am, midnight, you name it. I don't care if its during the day, but i need to sleep.
They also have long loud sexy times. Sometimes at 3AM which keeps me up. I've knocked on the floor a few times to let them know i can hear them, and to quiet down. They just go louder of course.
They smoke both pot and cigs.
The last month they've been having nasty screaming, yelling, throwing stuff fights. Which of course ends with them "making up".
they bounce balls off the wall.
they watch the tv absurdly loud.
So i broke down and told my manager whats been happening. She said she'd talk to them and ask them to keep things down.
So two days later they had a fight again, the usual stuff, so i let me manager know and she told me what happened when she talked to them.
She had asked them to both come to her office so she can talk to them. But they showed up right when she was leaving to pick up her kids from school. She politely told them that they couldnt talk because her kids were waiting, and that they can talk tomorrow. But the husband apparently just yelled at her and demanded to talk right then.
So she said she'd call security if they didnt leave. He was scaring her.
The next day the wife came and apologized and said he was just upset about things. And the manager explained whats going on and stuff and asked them to be quiet.
Btw, the manager also told me that she'd had problems with them before, he was an alcoholic, almost kicked them out but he went to rehab and then things were better.
But i guess hes been drinking again, and so theyve been fighting again.
I mean i feel bad for them of course, but all i want is for them to keep it down.
Anyway so i called security finally because tonight they were blasting music and singing so loud late at night. My manager had JUST talked to them today.
So right after the security came and asked them to keep it down, he starts calling me a c**t several times and other things and starts saying hes gunna come upstairs and talk to me and all these threats. So he DOES come upstairs but i was NOT going to answer the door.
he goes back downstairs and turns it up louder and continues to yell obscenities about me for like a half hour. Continues to be loud until midnight.
I was hesitating calling security for this reason, i figured he'd get really pissed off and come upstairs! AND i have to walk by their door all the time and i have a parking spot next to them, and so obviously im uncomfortable. But my manager urged me to call security if it happened again.
so i did.
but now im freaked out and scared.
anyone deal with a particularly nasty neighbor before?
So i've been dealing with a particularly loud neighbor downstairs.
The husband is a "retired failed singer" as he told me when i first moved in.
So i hear him sing a lot (rather badly) and play music at all hours. I mean really, middle of the day, 5:30am, midnight, you name it. I don't care if its during the day, but i need to sleep.
They also have long loud sexy times. Sometimes at 3AM which keeps me up. I've knocked on the floor a few times to let them know i can hear them, and to quiet down. They just go louder of course.
They smoke both pot and cigs.
The last month they've been having nasty screaming, yelling, throwing stuff fights. Which of course ends with them "making up".
they bounce balls off the wall.
they watch the tv absurdly loud.
So i broke down and told my manager whats been happening. She said she'd talk to them and ask them to keep things down.
So two days later they had a fight again, the usual stuff, so i let me manager know and she told me what happened when she talked to them.
She had asked them to both come to her office so she can talk to them. But they showed up right when she was leaving to pick up her kids from school. She politely told them that they couldnt talk because her kids were waiting, and that they can talk tomorrow. But the husband apparently just yelled at her and demanded to talk right then.
So she said she'd call security if they didnt leave. He was scaring her.
The next day the wife came and apologized and said he was just upset about things. And the manager explained whats going on and stuff and asked them to be quiet.
Btw, the manager also told me that she'd had problems with them before, he was an alcoholic, almost kicked them out but he went to rehab and then things were better.
But i guess hes been drinking again, and so theyve been fighting again.
I mean i feel bad for them of course, but all i want is for them to keep it down.
Anyway so i called security finally because tonight they were blasting music and singing so loud late at night. My manager had JUST talked to them today.
So right after the security came and asked them to keep it down, he starts calling me a c**t several times and other things and starts saying hes gunna come upstairs and talk to me and all these threats. So he DOES come upstairs but i was NOT going to answer the door.
he goes back downstairs and turns it up louder and continues to yell obscenities about me for like a half hour. Continues to be loud until midnight.
I was hesitating calling security for this reason, i figured he'd get really pissed off and come upstairs! AND i have to walk by their door all the time and i have a parking spot next to them, and so obviously im uncomfortable. But my manager urged me to call security if it happened again.
so i did.
but now im freaked out and scared.
anyone deal with a particularly nasty neighbor before?
