Sialia
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Hi everyone, I've lurked here for several months but haven't posted anything yet. I'm hoping for some advice.
We have a 2-year-old neutered male mini lop (will call him OldBunny) and a little over three weeks ago, we adopted a 3-year-old neutered male Holland lop (will call him NewBunny). OldBunny is free range. He lives mostly in our kitchen/dining room but has the run of much of the rest of the main floor of the house. NewBunny lives in my son's bedroom (free run in there).
We followed all the usual advice on bonding - let them get used to each other's scent by switching litter boxes and stuffed toys, and sniffing each other through gates, then started out with dates in our bathtub (neutral territory) over about a week and a half. We moved onto dates in our hallway (semi-neutral; each rabbit could take turns in there, and then we let them in there together for half-hour dates for about a week).
OldBunny quickly established his dominance by mounting NewBunny, which NewBunny tolerated. There was no fighting. If NewBunny got tired of being mounted, he'd hop away and OldBunny didn't usually pursue him, or would hop up to him and groom him.
Things were going so well (OldBunny grooming NewBunny, sharing meals of hay and salad, lying next to one another) that I decided to try introducing them to what would be their shared territory (our kitchen/dining room). This had been OldBunny's territory previously so I completely cleaned out his NIC condo and totally rearranged it, replaced the litter boxes, etc. Once I felt that it had been neutralized, I let both bunnies into the kitchen. As in the neutral and semi-neutral territories, OldBunny mounted NewBunny, which NewBunny tolerated for the most part. OldBunny groomed NewBunny, and they ate together and lay down together.
However, I still didn't trust them together alone so at night for the next 4 days I had them in the shared area during the day but put NewBunny back into a separate bedroom overnight. That meant OldBunny stayed in the "new" shared territory overnight, which in hindsight was probably a mistake.
Since things were going well with them in the shared territory during the day, I decided to try a 48-hour bonding session with them left in the shared territory together, in the hopes that it would cement their bond and I could leave them together.
So they were in there all day and overnight and were doing great - no scuffles, just OldBunny grooming NewBunny, eating together, cuddling, etc. Everything was great until mid-afternoon of the second day, when they suddenly started fighting - chasing, fur pulling. No injuries. I separated them and they retreated, then after a few minutes, OldBunny approached NewBunny and started grooming him and then grooming himself. They seemed to have made up and sat together for about 15 minutes. Then they started moving around the kitchen and had a face-off - NewBunny refusing to groom OldBunny and all heck broke loose again. This time, when I pulled them apart they'd just fly back at each other so I finally completely separated them and put NewBunny into the bedroom. I tried putting them back together after an hour or so of cooling off and again they seemed okay initially - NewBunny went to a ledge in the condo and ate a bunch of hay and appeared to go to sleep, while OldBunny sat on the kitchen floor and looked at me angrily. Eventually, though, when they emerged the fighting started again so I separated them again and they've been apart now since yesterday afternoon.
I think there are two possible problems:
1) NewBunny refuses to groom OldBunny. They'll push their foreheads together and eventually OldBunny gives in and grooms NewBunny. A few days before moving them to shared territory, I tried smearing banana on OldBunny's forehead to encourage NewBunny to groom him. BIG mistake! NewBunny went berserk, trying to mount OldBunny and chasing him all over the place. OldBunny looked completely confused. I separated them so I could wash the banana off of OldBunny and when I put them back together, they seemed okay. OldBunny tentatively came up to NewBunny, and NewBunny went into a submissive position and let OldBunny mount him.
2) NewBunny is getting more comfortable and is starting to assert his dominance. He's very cautious and reserved so maybe it's just taken him this long to decide he's ready to be dominant.
So now I think I just need some advice. I thought we were doing really well but maybe I've rushed things. Should I go back to semi-neutral or even neutral territory? Should I try a car ride or other stress bonding? I don't want to make the wrong decision and ruin things further.
Also, I think I need some reassurance there's hope for these two.
Any comments or suggestions will be much appreciated.
We have a 2-year-old neutered male mini lop (will call him OldBunny) and a little over three weeks ago, we adopted a 3-year-old neutered male Holland lop (will call him NewBunny). OldBunny is free range. He lives mostly in our kitchen/dining room but has the run of much of the rest of the main floor of the house. NewBunny lives in my son's bedroom (free run in there).
We followed all the usual advice on bonding - let them get used to each other's scent by switching litter boxes and stuffed toys, and sniffing each other through gates, then started out with dates in our bathtub (neutral territory) over about a week and a half. We moved onto dates in our hallway (semi-neutral; each rabbit could take turns in there, and then we let them in there together for half-hour dates for about a week).
OldBunny quickly established his dominance by mounting NewBunny, which NewBunny tolerated. There was no fighting. If NewBunny got tired of being mounted, he'd hop away and OldBunny didn't usually pursue him, or would hop up to him and groom him.
Things were going so well (OldBunny grooming NewBunny, sharing meals of hay and salad, lying next to one another) that I decided to try introducing them to what would be their shared territory (our kitchen/dining room). This had been OldBunny's territory previously so I completely cleaned out his NIC condo and totally rearranged it, replaced the litter boxes, etc. Once I felt that it had been neutralized, I let both bunnies into the kitchen. As in the neutral and semi-neutral territories, OldBunny mounted NewBunny, which NewBunny tolerated for the most part. OldBunny groomed NewBunny, and they ate together and lay down together.
However, I still didn't trust them together alone so at night for the next 4 days I had them in the shared area during the day but put NewBunny back into a separate bedroom overnight. That meant OldBunny stayed in the "new" shared territory overnight, which in hindsight was probably a mistake.
Since things were going well with them in the shared territory during the day, I decided to try a 48-hour bonding session with them left in the shared territory together, in the hopes that it would cement their bond and I could leave them together.
So they were in there all day and overnight and were doing great - no scuffles, just OldBunny grooming NewBunny, eating together, cuddling, etc. Everything was great until mid-afternoon of the second day, when they suddenly started fighting - chasing, fur pulling. No injuries. I separated them and they retreated, then after a few minutes, OldBunny approached NewBunny and started grooming him and then grooming himself. They seemed to have made up and sat together for about 15 minutes. Then they started moving around the kitchen and had a face-off - NewBunny refusing to groom OldBunny and all heck broke loose again. This time, when I pulled them apart they'd just fly back at each other so I finally completely separated them and put NewBunny into the bedroom. I tried putting them back together after an hour or so of cooling off and again they seemed okay initially - NewBunny went to a ledge in the condo and ate a bunch of hay and appeared to go to sleep, while OldBunny sat on the kitchen floor and looked at me angrily. Eventually, though, when they emerged the fighting started again so I separated them again and they've been apart now since yesterday afternoon.
I think there are two possible problems:
1) NewBunny refuses to groom OldBunny. They'll push their foreheads together and eventually OldBunny gives in and grooms NewBunny. A few days before moving them to shared territory, I tried smearing banana on OldBunny's forehead to encourage NewBunny to groom him. BIG mistake! NewBunny went berserk, trying to mount OldBunny and chasing him all over the place. OldBunny looked completely confused. I separated them so I could wash the banana off of OldBunny and when I put them back together, they seemed okay. OldBunny tentatively came up to NewBunny, and NewBunny went into a submissive position and let OldBunny mount him.
2) NewBunny is getting more comfortable and is starting to assert his dominance. He's very cautious and reserved so maybe it's just taken him this long to decide he's ready to be dominant.
So now I think I just need some advice. I thought we were doing really well but maybe I've rushed things. Should I go back to semi-neutral or even neutral territory? Should I try a car ride or other stress bonding? I don't want to make the wrong decision and ruin things further.
Also, I think I need some reassurance there's hope for these two.
Any comments or suggestions will be much appreciated.