jil101ca
Well-Known Member
My son is 15 1/2. In sept he stole a little girls 20 inch bike. Why? because he was grounded from his for not wearing his helmet. It is the law here and the house rule is: no helmet = no wheels. He said he was tired of walking. It takes a whole 20 mins to walk across the town we live in. He was accepted in a program called Extra Judicial sanction. He has to write a letter of apoligy, donate his allowance to a charity and say he is sorry to the owner of the bike and her parents.If he stays out of trouble with the police for 2 years the charge of possesion of stolen property will disappear and he will have no criminal record.The letter is due tommorrow and is not even half done. He has conditions of release from the police. no drinking, no drugs, follow house hold rules and let his parents know where he is at all times.3 nights ago we are pretty sure he came home high from smoking pot. Yesterday he asked me if he could sleep at a friends house, the mom was picking him up at the grocery store. I said yes. I called the friends last night and there was no answer. I called again today and spoke to the friends Mom. She said that the friend spent the night at their camp with a kid named Jessie and not my son. My son lied to me about where he was going to be. He has not called nor come home yet today and it is now 5pm. His actions tell me he is not going to make changes about the road he is chosing. I am sitting here debating wether to call the police and have him arrested for breach of his release.Or should I give him a chance to explain himself, knowing that he is probaly lying to me yet again. He has plans to go live with his real father Dec 1st.What would you do?