Aww...don't feel like a dork. Manypeople misread bunnies and don't know exactly what to do withthem. You're certainly not the first, Hun.
My main suggestion: get your girl spayed. It's more than likely the #1 reason for her agression.
My second: to not try to hold her. Many bunnies just plainfreak out about being picked up, and it really imposes on theirpersonal space. I would much rather lay on the floor and getto my BUN's level, than try the opposite (getting her to MY level).
Don't feel bad...many, many people make the mistake of thinking bunslike to snuggle in one's arms, when there are actually very few likeit. I have three buns, and none of them like it.Maisie did when she was a baby (as did Flower), but once those hormoneshit, that was IT for being held! Hehe!!
I think if you get her spayed...you'll see a change.
Hugs!
Rosie & the Herd :bunnydance::bunnydance::bunnydance::bunnydance::bunnydance: