Hi there,
I have been in the bonding process for a couple weeks now. I cannot bond them every since day as I have work now, but I try to make sure they can see eachother at least 4 times a week for 20-60 minutes. For the first two times, I tried stress bonding them inside a laundry basket, which worked okay. After we moved to the bathtub.
But problems started to arise. Toby (Male) started to mount Zayka (Female), but she didn’t care. A couple days later, she started to get fed up and often nipped Toby whenever he would mount her. Zayka started to mount him. He would be fine with it for the first 5-10 seconds but then he would run. She would chase him and try to mount again, but by that time, they would already be nipping eachother. They get separated when they do that, but only for a couple of seconds.
I don’t understand this one thing though. These fights occur 1-3 times each time we bond, but right after Zayka flops down right next to Toby, and he ends up grooming her. They often stare at each other before they fight, then touch noses after they fight.
I just need some help understanding why Zayka would lay down like nothing happened after a fight.
Any tips or suggestions would be GREATLY appreciated!!!
I have been in the bonding process for a couple weeks now. I cannot bond them every since day as I have work now, but I try to make sure they can see eachother at least 4 times a week for 20-60 minutes. For the first two times, I tried stress bonding them inside a laundry basket, which worked okay. After we moved to the bathtub.
But problems started to arise. Toby (Male) started to mount Zayka (Female), but she didn’t care. A couple days later, she started to get fed up and often nipped Toby whenever he would mount her. Zayka started to mount him. He would be fine with it for the first 5-10 seconds but then he would run. She would chase him and try to mount again, but by that time, they would already be nipping eachother. They get separated when they do that, but only for a couple of seconds.
I don’t understand this one thing though. These fights occur 1-3 times each time we bond, but right after Zayka flops down right next to Toby, and he ends up grooming her. They often stare at each other before they fight, then touch noses after they fight.
I just need some help understanding why Zayka would lay down like nothing happened after a fight.
Any tips or suggestions would be GREATLY appreciated!!!