SunnyCait
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Hey guys!
So we've had our new Elop home since last Friday... And everything was going well, he seemed friendly enough. Then slowly, we realized he is just not as friendly as we thought. Either he got more comfortable and this is what he is really like, or something here is scaring him to make him... I don't know, dislike us I guess would be how I put it. He doesn't seem happy interacting with us any more. I didn't really think anything of it, just that he was being a typical rabbit (with Breakfast and our dear What being quite the exception, as friendly and loving as they are/were). We already knew he hated being picked up, he kicks and kicks like he's struggling for his life. So we avoid picking him up.
But tonight he bit my wife. She was on the floor sitting and he was running around our basement (think family room, not typical scary basement) and he came up to her and laid his head down like he does sometimes, and we've been interpretting this as him wanted to be petted... So she pet him. And he lashed out at her with his front feet, growled, and bit her hand pretty severely.
I don't know. I know that could have been interpretted as her provoking him... But he came over to HER. Whenever he did that before, we pet him. Now I'm thinking we had it all wrong... This was not a "pet me" action... I don't know what it is supposed to mean.
He also does not even tolerate the idea of other rabbits. I had Breakfast out in the basement as well and without hesitation the new rabbit went after him. Breakfast is a friendly, affable boy. All he wants is a rabbit friend... He didn't do anything that read as offensive. Obviously we haven't tried to do that again, and probably won't.
He just doesn't seem to enjoy us. I'm wondering if he was scared when he first got here, and now that he is settling slightly he's acting out? He won't be picked up, and now he acts scared when we pet him. How are we supposed to interact with him? I don't know. I just feel really discouraged, because he was so sweet when we met with him and the staff said he was a good rabbit... I'm prepared to give him more time. It hasn't even been a week.
I have to add that I have a son who is not the biggest fan of animals. Having a rabbit around who dislikes people and lashes out just doesn't go... I hate the idea of having a rabbit penned up all the time just to keep him away from my son. The other rabbits free roam most of the day (although seperately). And my wife does not have the nicest thoughts about the new rabbit... She's never been bitten by anything before, and in her mind she just doesn't get why. She thinks it's like a dog... In fact the words were "If this was a dog, he'd have already been on his way back!"
I have to admit that it is also disheartening to both my wife and I because we sort of expected him to be like What... I don't know why, stupid people thoughts I guess. It just makes us miss him more... That probably sounds stupid but I'm being honest. I think it was a mistake to rush into getting another rabbit so soon, just because he was the same breed... I don't know. It's just upsetting.I hope he just needs more time... And this isn't the REAL him.
I just want to reiterate, he isn't going anywhere. I'm just looking for a little insight, some encouragement...
So we've had our new Elop home since last Friday... And everything was going well, he seemed friendly enough. Then slowly, we realized he is just not as friendly as we thought. Either he got more comfortable and this is what he is really like, or something here is scaring him to make him... I don't know, dislike us I guess would be how I put it. He doesn't seem happy interacting with us any more. I didn't really think anything of it, just that he was being a typical rabbit (with Breakfast and our dear What being quite the exception, as friendly and loving as they are/were). We already knew he hated being picked up, he kicks and kicks like he's struggling for his life. So we avoid picking him up.
But tonight he bit my wife. She was on the floor sitting and he was running around our basement (think family room, not typical scary basement) and he came up to her and laid his head down like he does sometimes, and we've been interpretting this as him wanted to be petted... So she pet him. And he lashed out at her with his front feet, growled, and bit her hand pretty severely.
I don't know. I know that could have been interpretted as her provoking him... But he came over to HER. Whenever he did that before, we pet him. Now I'm thinking we had it all wrong... This was not a "pet me" action... I don't know what it is supposed to mean.
He also does not even tolerate the idea of other rabbits. I had Breakfast out in the basement as well and without hesitation the new rabbit went after him. Breakfast is a friendly, affable boy. All he wants is a rabbit friend... He didn't do anything that read as offensive. Obviously we haven't tried to do that again, and probably won't.
He just doesn't seem to enjoy us. I'm wondering if he was scared when he first got here, and now that he is settling slightly he's acting out? He won't be picked up, and now he acts scared when we pet him. How are we supposed to interact with him? I don't know. I just feel really discouraged, because he was so sweet when we met with him and the staff said he was a good rabbit... I'm prepared to give him more time. It hasn't even been a week.
I have to add that I have a son who is not the biggest fan of animals. Having a rabbit around who dislikes people and lashes out just doesn't go... I hate the idea of having a rabbit penned up all the time just to keep him away from my son. The other rabbits free roam most of the day (although seperately). And my wife does not have the nicest thoughts about the new rabbit... She's never been bitten by anything before, and in her mind she just doesn't get why. She thinks it's like a dog... In fact the words were "If this was a dog, he'd have already been on his way back!"
I have to admit that it is also disheartening to both my wife and I because we sort of expected him to be like What... I don't know why, stupid people thoughts I guess. It just makes us miss him more... That probably sounds stupid but I'm being honest. I think it was a mistake to rush into getting another rabbit so soon, just because he was the same breed... I don't know. It's just upsetting.I hope he just needs more time... And this isn't the REAL him.
I just want to reiterate, he isn't going anywhere. I'm just looking for a little insight, some encouragement...