I agree with others, it's varies greatly from rabbit to rabbit. My two lops that I handled from the day they were born now LOVE attention and seem to enjoy being held so long as they're in the mood. They used to kick and fight when they were younger, but once they got to be about 2.5 months, they began to enjoy it.
My dutch tolerates being held, but it took lots of positive reinforcement. She used to HATE it. And with past rabbits, I had one that would flop in my lap and sleep, one that seemed to enjoy being held and never protested, and 2 who just seemed to tolerate it, but never seemed happy to be held.