juliew19673
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I need to get my newest bun that I adopted from the shelter that I volunteer atto stop peeing on everything as well as chewing up my floorboards,carpets and just being destructive all around (she was unsexed end of February - so hormones are not the problem)..
She was one of the best buns at the shelter (clean, great disposition, never a problem, just quiet, was there for about1 year). Now she is hell on wheels at my home and being a big bully with my other bun and kitten. Think its "prison freedom syndrome?". She no longer is confinded to a "hutch" such as she was at the shelter and is not just gettingtaken out at noon everyday for 15 minutes and then put back; nor had she had to deal with other animals, while there.
Been working on this for sometime, just not sure how to "correct" her other than giving her time out (back into her Xpen) when she chases the other pets (thought at first, they'll work out their pack, but she just seems to do it now to be a bully).And further, I do not allow any pet to chase the other (as I'm dealing with cats and buns, would never allow the kitten to do this - don't want her to grow bigger and then have instinct kick in; so the same goes for buns, other than then maybe one needs show they are in charge but Gabby just seems to be a bully - so not OK.
Everyone "gets along" as long as Gabby can have whatever place the others are sleeping in and thats not fine with me. Gabby and Baxter! were bonded about a month ago and have been fine (other than their bonding was by "ill-gotten-means" as Gabby just jumped out of her Xpen one night and chased his lil furry butt around all night and I awoke to the 2 of them cuddling in his Xpen (his was never shut as he was just a good boy all of the time). They've been "close-friends" after this incident,but wouldn't say "in-love", probably as their bonding process was like the worst date ever and then you moved in with each other and now they put up with each other.
I realize nature has to call some of the shots (Gabby becomes King of the Hill and the others must respect her)just not sure where instinct/nature end and bullying starts?
I'd just be happy at this point if Gabby could have free run all of the time and stop destroying everything.
She was one of the best buns at the shelter (clean, great disposition, never a problem, just quiet, was there for about1 year). Now she is hell on wheels at my home and being a big bully with my other bun and kitten. Think its "prison freedom syndrome?". She no longer is confinded to a "hutch" such as she was at the shelter and is not just gettingtaken out at noon everyday for 15 minutes and then put back; nor had she had to deal with other animals, while there.
Been working on this for sometime, just not sure how to "correct" her other than giving her time out (back into her Xpen) when she chases the other pets (thought at first, they'll work out their pack, but she just seems to do it now to be a bully).And further, I do not allow any pet to chase the other (as I'm dealing with cats and buns, would never allow the kitten to do this - don't want her to grow bigger and then have instinct kick in; so the same goes for buns, other than then maybe one needs show they are in charge but Gabby just seems to be a bully - so not OK.
Everyone "gets along" as long as Gabby can have whatever place the others are sleeping in and thats not fine with me. Gabby and Baxter! were bonded about a month ago and have been fine (other than their bonding was by "ill-gotten-means" as Gabby just jumped out of her Xpen one night and chased his lil furry butt around all night and I awoke to the 2 of them cuddling in his Xpen (his was never shut as he was just a good boy all of the time). They've been "close-friends" after this incident,but wouldn't say "in-love", probably as their bonding process was like the worst date ever and then you moved in with each other and now they put up with each other.
I realize nature has to call some of the shots (Gabby becomes King of the Hill and the others must respect her)just not sure where instinct/nature end and bullying starts?
I'd just be happy at this point if Gabby could have free run all of the time and stop destroying everything.