DyemondRabbitry
Well-Known Member
Oh boy, do I need to rant!
Let's start with work. First of all, I was a business majoy in school. I love numbers and statistics. AND I'm working for an attorney as a secretary. My boss knew this when he hired me 6 months ago. Why does he now think I should know all about law, forms for filing complaints and all? How would I know that "Ok to file" means check to seehe's attached all exhibits correctly, double check all spelling, make sure he has taken off his notes and has dated everything correctly by going through the entire file and checking each piece? To me, "Ok to file" means file the **** thing! None the less, he goes off the deap end over things such as misspelling a last name in phone message (even just a typo) or thinking that I should know ALL of his clients. For Pete's sake.. I started six months ago, right out of college, the week before I got married and he's been practicing law for 19 years! I'm only 20!!
Now lets go to home. My in-laws live with me. My mother in law is in her sixties and father in law is 73. She seems to think that my husband has to bow down to her every need including planting any flowers she has bought, carrying her groceries into the house, taking out the garbage, moving boxes.... she has absolutely NO independence. Also, the only bill they pay is for groceries and my hubby has complained a couple times about the fact that we never have any meat except for chicken and nothing is homemade when she cooks she she starts going after him for not paying for the groceries. First of all, she still works and her husband gets SS. Wade and I both work full-time and we pay for 2 brand new cars, electric, insurance, gas and all animal supplies (even hers). I mean, we could take over the groceries but I don't think it's fair for them to live there for free. Is it? They moved here from Florida so they could see their grandkids (his half sibling's kids). And oh yeah, I guess my house is not my house as I cannot even do any redecorating. Of course everything was there when they moved in but she has claimed our livingroom suit and really anything she likes. Her daughter is over all the time and she hates me. She has five children who have absolutely no discipline and are spoiled so badly I can't stand it... she comes to do her laundry at our house because SHE can't afford to pay electric. This woman has never worked a day in her life and lives off child support.
Wow... that's getting really long. To top this all off I'm pregnant for the first time, and, even though I'm over the sickness the stress of this is really killing me. Hubby and I have looked for a new house but it would be such a shame because they would get our house along with all the work we've put into it. I just don't know what to do anymore- this is getting so hard. I can't even cook a meal without my mother-in-law that I've done something "wrong" because it isn't how she would do it. My mother and grandmothers taught me to cook. One side of my family is strongly German and the other is Native American so absolutely everything is going to be homemade and that's what I'm used to.....
Please help??
Let's start with work. First of all, I was a business majoy in school. I love numbers and statistics. AND I'm working for an attorney as a secretary. My boss knew this when he hired me 6 months ago. Why does he now think I should know all about law, forms for filing complaints and all? How would I know that "Ok to file" means check to seehe's attached all exhibits correctly, double check all spelling, make sure he has taken off his notes and has dated everything correctly by going through the entire file and checking each piece? To me, "Ok to file" means file the **** thing! None the less, he goes off the deap end over things such as misspelling a last name in phone message (even just a typo) or thinking that I should know ALL of his clients. For Pete's sake.. I started six months ago, right out of college, the week before I got married and he's been practicing law for 19 years! I'm only 20!!
Now lets go to home. My in-laws live with me. My mother in law is in her sixties and father in law is 73. She seems to think that my husband has to bow down to her every need including planting any flowers she has bought, carrying her groceries into the house, taking out the garbage, moving boxes.... she has absolutely NO independence. Also, the only bill they pay is for groceries and my hubby has complained a couple times about the fact that we never have any meat except for chicken and nothing is homemade when she cooks she she starts going after him for not paying for the groceries. First of all, she still works and her husband gets SS. Wade and I both work full-time and we pay for 2 brand new cars, electric, insurance, gas and all animal supplies (even hers). I mean, we could take over the groceries but I don't think it's fair for them to live there for free. Is it? They moved here from Florida so they could see their grandkids (his half sibling's kids). And oh yeah, I guess my house is not my house as I cannot even do any redecorating. Of course everything was there when they moved in but she has claimed our livingroom suit and really anything she likes. Her daughter is over all the time and she hates me. She has five children who have absolutely no discipline and are spoiled so badly I can't stand it... she comes to do her laundry at our house because SHE can't afford to pay electric. This woman has never worked a day in her life and lives off child support.
Wow... that's getting really long. To top this all off I'm pregnant for the first time, and, even though I'm over the sickness the stress of this is really killing me. Hubby and I have looked for a new house but it would be such a shame because they would get our house along with all the work we've put into it. I just don't know what to do anymore- this is getting so hard. I can't even cook a meal without my mother-in-law that I've done something "wrong" because it isn't how she would do it. My mother and grandmothers taught me to cook. One side of my family is strongly German and the other is Native American so absolutely everything is going to be homemade and that's what I'm used to.....
Please help??
Hugs again, hang in there!
