Bunnies binky more than adult rabbits, so part of it is that he is just getting older. My Netherland is six, but I got him when he was four. He is nice and calm when I have him on my lap, but once I put him down, he wants nothing to do with people. He is good at coming when called, but I am sure that is because I give him a treat when he comes. He takes the treat and runs off with it. On a rare occasion, he will let me pet his head if I approach him slowly. Netherlands are a lively breed, and so I just accept that it is part of his personality. I have three other rabbits, and all of them are friendly towards me, but I do something special with all of them. I take my mini rex to agility, and my two mix breeds do therapy work. I have used my Netherland for therapy before because he sits so well, but it has not changed his attitude, so I quit using him for therapy because I think he just tolerates it. I have tried leash training him, and worked with him on jumping hurdles, but he just got annoyed with me. I have fostered two other Netherlands, and neither of them were people friendly. I have seen some friendly Netherlands, but wonder if being standoffish could be part of the personality of the breed?