jcottonl02
Well-Known Member
I'm in halls at the moment and I am SO FED UP of it here.
I am so angry right now. So so angry. I'll try to actually type normally but my hands are shaking.
So we all have two cupboards in the kitchen. One locks, one doesn't. I've got all my stuff in there.
So the first week we are here, my wine glass goes missing, 2 of my normal glasses, and a few cutlery n stuff. I was miffed. But thought, ah no big deal.
As the weeks have been going on, things slowly go missing more and more.
I am now down to 1 fork left, 2 knives, and just 1 or 2 glasses. I started with 4 of each.
People in my flat have actually done this!!!!
I can't wash up my stuff, and leave it on the draining board to drip dry for a few hours becuse when I come back it is either gone for good or been used, and shoved somewhere with the dried orange muck all over it, and I have to clean it AGAIN!!!!!!
Wen I want to cook something, and i've got my baking tray out with foil ready. I come back, and someone is acutlaly using it!!!!!!!!!!! When I've got it all set up while the rest of my meal is cooking before i put my chips in or something!!!!!!! So I can't cook the rest of my meal!
The other day I had a pile of my washing up I need to do (a few forks in a saucepan, with a bowl on top) neatly in a corner. It had been there for a few hours (more than I usually leave it), and I intended to wash it up with my dinner stuff.
I came to wash it up, and someone had REMOVED all the stuff in it, and used my saucepan, and left it all greasy on a surface somewhere. I was so mad.
So I left a note saying:
'Please can people stop taking things that don't belong to them. They either mysteriously 'disappear' or I have to rewash the muck off them after you use it and leave it.
Buy your own stuff- the rest of us have- and use it! Or better still, just ask!!!!!'
And I have just gone to cook some lunch, and found my oil on the side. Someone had gone INTO my private cupboard, and taken it to use. I was like 'wow!'. And then the worst thing. I go into my other PRIVATE cupboard, and someone had rifled through it, taken my frying pan, and it was nowhere to be seen.
I was in shock. We don't do that here! People have their own cupboards, and noone goes into eachothers!!!!!!
Then I found my frying pan a few minutes later.
COVERED in grime. Cooked on brown stuff. Shoved on the side.
Someone actually used it this morning while i was here. They actualy went into my private space and took something and WRECKED IT. This was a good quality frying pan my mum bought me specially because I like good quality frying pans.
And it's just caked with fried stuff.
I was so upset I've just been crying with anger and hurt- its a betrayal. I've NEVER so much as used someone's fork let alone take something of theirs or EVER go into their cupboards!!
I can't live somewhere where I can't trust people.
I'm so upset after everything that has happened before this.
It's the last straw!
I'm so sorry to moan, but I need to otherwise I am just going to knock on doors until I find the person who did this.
It's just the deliberate betrayal. We have a system here- we all agreed to be respectful.
The odd fork that goes missing from the draining board.
Fine.
I'm not gonna get mad about it. My Dad has just bought me a whole new set and engraved my name on them all so noone can take them. He knows how much I've lost and everything that's been happening for the months I've been here.
Now this. What next- will they be going into my bedroom?
Normally I leave my door propped open when I rush to the kitchen to grab another drink, like everyone does, but boy will I think twice now. I live with untrustworthy people, who KNOW after the notes people (others too) have left in the kitchen about things going missing.
EUGH!
Sorry. Thanks for letting me rant.
I am just so so upset.
I am so angry right now. So so angry. I'll try to actually type normally but my hands are shaking.
So we all have two cupboards in the kitchen. One locks, one doesn't. I've got all my stuff in there.
So the first week we are here, my wine glass goes missing, 2 of my normal glasses, and a few cutlery n stuff. I was miffed. But thought, ah no big deal.
As the weeks have been going on, things slowly go missing more and more.
I am now down to 1 fork left, 2 knives, and just 1 or 2 glasses. I started with 4 of each.
People in my flat have actually done this!!!!
I can't wash up my stuff, and leave it on the draining board to drip dry for a few hours becuse when I come back it is either gone for good or been used, and shoved somewhere with the dried orange muck all over it, and I have to clean it AGAIN!!!!!!
Wen I want to cook something, and i've got my baking tray out with foil ready. I come back, and someone is acutlaly using it!!!!!!!!!!! When I've got it all set up while the rest of my meal is cooking before i put my chips in or something!!!!!!! So I can't cook the rest of my meal!
The other day I had a pile of my washing up I need to do (a few forks in a saucepan, with a bowl on top) neatly in a corner. It had been there for a few hours (more than I usually leave it), and I intended to wash it up with my dinner stuff.
I came to wash it up, and someone had REMOVED all the stuff in it, and used my saucepan, and left it all greasy on a surface somewhere. I was so mad.
So I left a note saying:
'Please can people stop taking things that don't belong to them. They either mysteriously 'disappear' or I have to rewash the muck off them after you use it and leave it.
Buy your own stuff- the rest of us have- and use it! Or better still, just ask!!!!!'
And I have just gone to cook some lunch, and found my oil on the side. Someone had gone INTO my private cupboard, and taken it to use. I was like 'wow!'. And then the worst thing. I go into my other PRIVATE cupboard, and someone had rifled through it, taken my frying pan, and it was nowhere to be seen.
I was in shock. We don't do that here! People have their own cupboards, and noone goes into eachothers!!!!!!
Then I found my frying pan a few minutes later.
COVERED in grime. Cooked on brown stuff. Shoved on the side.
Someone actually used it this morning while i was here. They actualy went into my private space and took something and WRECKED IT. This was a good quality frying pan my mum bought me specially because I like good quality frying pans.
And it's just caked with fried stuff.
I was so upset I've just been crying with anger and hurt- its a betrayal. I've NEVER so much as used someone's fork let alone take something of theirs or EVER go into their cupboards!!
I can't live somewhere where I can't trust people.
I'm so upset after everything that has happened before this.
It's the last straw!
I'm so sorry to moan, but I need to otherwise I am just going to knock on doors until I find the person who did this.
It's just the deliberate betrayal. We have a system here- we all agreed to be respectful.
The odd fork that goes missing from the draining board.
Fine.
I'm not gonna get mad about it. My Dad has just bought me a whole new set and engraved my name on them all so noone can take them. He knows how much I've lost and everything that's been happening for the months I've been here.
Now this. What next- will they be going into my bedroom?
Normally I leave my door propped open when I rush to the kitchen to grab another drink, like everyone does, but boy will I think twice now. I live with untrustworthy people, who KNOW after the notes people (others too) have left in the kitchen about things going missing.
EUGH!
Sorry. Thanks for letting me rant.
I am just so so upset.