Rayen
Well-Known Member
Okay, so maybe hatred is a little strong. But it's been bothering me for a few months and I had hoped it would get better but it never really has so here's my question.
When I first got Briar she loved me. I would pet her and she would sit beside me forever and ever to get more pets. She never liked being picked up, which was fine by me and I didn't pick her up more than necessary. Quinn came along and she was still fine, still loved getting attention. When she became a big teen bun she would try to tell me she loved me all the time by circling me and rubbing her scent all over me. She would 'groom' my pants and hair and fingers.
Then I got her spayed.
Her spay did not go well. First I had to give her the pain medication which was fine, she liked it, but I would poke around in her cage two-three times a day more than normal which was not so fine. Then she ripped her stitches out and two days after her spay we had to go to the vet (an hour away). They glued it shut and gave me more medication. So now I had to go into her cage to give her more medication that she hated and so I had to fight with her. Then she managed to get the glue off (she had been wearing a bunny-cone) and we had to go to the vet again. Then she stopped eating, so I had to take her to the vet again.
Anyway, short version: I had to pick her up way too often when she wasn't feeling well and had to stuff medication she hated down her throat for nearly two weeks.
Now I can just barely pet her and she'll run when I come near her. I've tried doing the same thing I did when I first got them, lying on the floor letting her smell me and lick me, etc. I don't pick her up unless I have to (nail clippings and quick checks). I sit on the floor with my laptop, or read a book and she'll come smell me and lick at me still but if I go to pet her or touch her she runs.
Will she ever like me again? Or is this it? She's been spayed for about 3-4 months now, I was kind of hoping it would at least start to get slightly better by now.
When I first got Briar she loved me. I would pet her and she would sit beside me forever and ever to get more pets. She never liked being picked up, which was fine by me and I didn't pick her up more than necessary. Quinn came along and she was still fine, still loved getting attention. When she became a big teen bun she would try to tell me she loved me all the time by circling me and rubbing her scent all over me. She would 'groom' my pants and hair and fingers.
Then I got her spayed.
Her spay did not go well. First I had to give her the pain medication which was fine, she liked it, but I would poke around in her cage two-three times a day more than normal which was not so fine. Then she ripped her stitches out and two days after her spay we had to go to the vet (an hour away). They glued it shut and gave me more medication. So now I had to go into her cage to give her more medication that she hated and so I had to fight with her. Then she managed to get the glue off (she had been wearing a bunny-cone) and we had to go to the vet again. Then she stopped eating, so I had to take her to the vet again.
Anyway, short version: I had to pick her up way too often when she wasn't feeling well and had to stuff medication she hated down her throat for nearly two weeks.
Now I can just barely pet her and she'll run when I come near her. I've tried doing the same thing I did when I first got them, lying on the floor letting her smell me and lick me, etc. I don't pick her up unless I have to (nail clippings and quick checks). I sit on the floor with my laptop, or read a book and she'll come smell me and lick at me still but if I go to pet her or touch her she runs.
Will she ever like me again? Or is this it? She's been spayed for about 3-4 months now, I was kind of hoping it would at least start to get slightly better by now.