BabyRue
Well-Known Member
My little Maltese has the worse separation anxiety. I will admit I did cause it because when she was a puppy I took her everywhere with me and was always cuddling her. Then shortly after getting her things went really bad with my ex and we would fight like crazy, screaming and throwing things at each other and him beating on me. So that didn't help her any.
For the last year and a half though she has had nothing but a very happy and loving positive environment to live in. She gets lots of attention and walks and play time. She is kennel trained and loves her kennel. She has constant access to it and hangs out in there often when we are home.
However once I start getting ready to go out she starts shaking like crazy. She is glued to my heels and as soon as she goes in her kennel she shakes and cries and starts barking non stop.
I have tried every training tip I can think of. Such as getting ready to go out then not leaving. Picking up my keys and randomly acting like I am going out then stay home. I have tried the ignoring her before leaving and when I get home. When she comes out of her kennel when I get home I ignore her until she calms down.
We have tried the thunder shirt. Herbal calming treats, herbal anxiety relief drops and even a small dose of ativan(vet recommended dose).
NOTHING is working. When she goes in her kennel and I leave I have sat outside for awhile to see how long it takes her to calm down and gave up after half an hour and had to leave. I have left and come back an hour later to her STILL barking.
I don't know what to do. Should I just let it happen? Is it going to cause her any long term harm? Is it upsetting me more then it is her?
There has to be something that will work. I am never letting her go. She is my baby and we have been through way to much together. So I would never rehome her because of this. She will be 3 the end of this month.
Picture of my little muppet
For the last year and a half though she has had nothing but a very happy and loving positive environment to live in. She gets lots of attention and walks and play time. She is kennel trained and loves her kennel. She has constant access to it and hangs out in there often when we are home.
However once I start getting ready to go out she starts shaking like crazy. She is glued to my heels and as soon as she goes in her kennel she shakes and cries and starts barking non stop.
I have tried every training tip I can think of. Such as getting ready to go out then not leaving. Picking up my keys and randomly acting like I am going out then stay home. I have tried the ignoring her before leaving and when I get home. When she comes out of her kennel when I get home I ignore her until she calms down.
We have tried the thunder shirt. Herbal calming treats, herbal anxiety relief drops and even a small dose of ativan(vet recommended dose).
NOTHING is working. When she goes in her kennel and I leave I have sat outside for awhile to see how long it takes her to calm down and gave up after half an hour and had to leave. I have left and come back an hour later to her STILL barking.
I don't know what to do. Should I just let it happen? Is it going to cause her any long term harm? Is it upsetting me more then it is her?
There has to be something that will work. I am never letting her go. She is my baby and we have been through way to much together. So I would never rehome her because of this. She will be 3 the end of this month.
Picture of my little muppet