BridgetandAlfie
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I've had Bridget (in profile pic) for almost 2 years. 9 days ago we adopted a male mini lop called Alfie, because I thought Bridget could benefit from having a friend. They're both desexed and have gentle friendly personalities. I've been bonding them daily in the neutral territory of my bathroom and the rest of the time they life separately on my balcony, but can still see and smell one another. Bonding got off to a good start, by the second session there was some grooming, and aggression has been minimal. However I can't seem to get them to make that leap from tolerating each other to falling in love. During the bonding sessions there is a fair bit of grooming, the odd nip here and there, but they spend most of the time just completely ignoring each other. Is there anything I can do to speed the process up because I'm worried we'll be stuck at this "tolerating one another" stage for a while otherwise. I took them on a stress bonding car ride today for 30 minutes, and followed it up with another bathroom bonding session, but their behaviour didn't change at all. They mainly just ignore each other and have a nap instead. Is this normal or is there something else I can do?