I'm far too lazy and have far too many half-finished projects on my plate to even consider coming up with a single, all-encompassing source for bunny diet info... however, I can definitely provide a myriad of sites that - in their entirety - give **** near all the information you could ever wish for.
rabbit food pyramid -
http://www.rescuerabbitsrock.com/rabbit_diet.htm
general rabbit diet info:
http://www.rabbit.org/faq/sections/diet.html
http://www.3bunnies.org/feeding.htm
veggie lists/veggie feeding info:
http://www.rabbit.org/care/veggies.html
http://www.3bunnies.org/feeding.htm#greens
http://www.medirabbit.com/EN/Food/Food_main.htm
sugar glider dietary spreadsheets:
http://www.sweet-sugar-gliders.com/calcium_phosphorous_ratios.pdf
http://www.gliderkids.com/FruitVegLIST2011.pdf
yes, I know, a bunny is not a sugar glider... however, the glider community seems to have put significantly more effort into scrounging up the nitty-gritty details as far as dietary information for fruits and veggies; all of which is surprisingly relevant to rabbits.
the rabbit.org site stresses careful moderation of veggies that are high in oxylates and provides a list of high-OA veggies... however, I've discovered that their list is *far* from complete. the first of the two sugar glider links gives significantly more detail regarding oxylate content than rabbit.org does.
the 3bunnies.org veggie info fails to mention OA-related concerns at all... but unlike rabbit.org, it emphasizes concern for calcium content.
in all fairness, the link between the amount of calcium ingested and calcium-related issues like bladder sludge is dubious at best according to may sources (including Geoff, the vet who visits RO from time to time)... however, I've yet to see definitive proof that it's safe to completely disregard the idea of possible side-effects from feeding your rabbit high amounts of calcium-loaded veggies, so I feel it's best to provide people with the calcium information and let them make their own decision.
calcium is trickier than any rabbit-related site I've ever seen lets on, though. the TLDR of it is that, at a 1:1 ratio, phosphorus binds to calcium and they cancel each other out. for example, artichoke has a significantly high amount of calcium in it... but it has about twice as much phosphorus as it does calcium, meaning it ISN'T a veggie that you have to worry about due to a "high calcium content" (not the best example in regards to bunnies, as it's a non-leafy green that should be severely limited, but it illustrates the point).
as far as leafy greens go... I've heard people warn that kale is high in calcium. it contains 5.65 mg of calcium per tablespoon (4.19g)... however, that same amount of kale contains 2.65 mg of phosphorus for an overall ratio of 2.41, which actually isn't all that bad. collard greens are a good bit lower than kale in calcium (3.26 mg per 1 Tbsp (2.25g))... but that same amount only contains .23 mg of phosphorus, giving it a ratio of 14.5:1 and making it more of a "threat" in regards to excess calcium than kale is by far.
at a certain point, the math just gets ridiculous to try to calculate and balance - it's really, truly not worth stressing yourself out over! the glider pages are worth skimming to get the general gist of things, but aren't worth stressing over. they definitely make me feel better about feeding kale pretty much daily, though (I'd prefer more variety, but Nala's a ridiculously picky little bitch about her veggies) - I was told it should be pretty strictly moderated due to both OA content and calcium, but the glider spreadsheets/charts show that the OA content is actually on the low side and much of the calcium is canceled out by the phosphorus content. as a result, I no longer feel the need to worry too much about the amount I'm feeding.
anyway, hope that helped without hurting your brain too much!