Dear Dudisowa,
Not sticking your hand in the cage isn't going to help much in the longrun. Your rabbit won't get used to you. You'll still have to get hisnails clipped each couple of weeks, tops, so at some point, you'll haveto take the 'bull by the horns'.
It's true that your rabbit needs neutering. I wouldn't expect him tocalm down unless you do get him neutered and/or take time with him;talking to him, putting your hand first on the outside of the cage orjust inside to door so that he gets used to you. Respect his space,talk to him some more, watch him relax as he gets to know you, don't bein a rush or afraid when you do approach him. When you're cleaning thecage, can he be let out so that he's not so affected by thatdisturbance? If not, just clean the cage and don't try to pet him whenyou're doing that task. Don't try to pick him up. For now, at this timesince he's still new to your household, just sit with him, talk to him,and let him smell you without you trying to pet him. Trust is builtslowly, but once you have it, you're Golden!
Don't wait to get him neutered if at all possible. If money is an issue, talk to a shelter and see what they would recommend.
-Carolyn